Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Relationship- Love and Friendship: Mysterious Relatioship!

Relationship- Love and Friendship: Mysterious Relatioship!: "A big thank to everyone who appreciated my first blog about my visit to South Africa and for them as well who did not appreciate because her..."

Mysterious Relatioship!

A big thank to everyone who appreciated my first blog about my visit to South Africa and for them as well who did not appreciate because here is another chance to you to ;).I do hope it will give all who read it some little nuggets of interest. So sit back, relax and get ready to read something about relationship. I am undeniably not old enough to give you something about relationship. I just felt to share my views about it!

It’s exactly 5 months now I have returned from SA, place where I met different kind of people and each one of them had something to teach me. It’s well said “You learn something every day if you pay attention” I did pay attention to even small small things and learnt a lot from it. Learnt many things, like greeting everyone and sending morning wishes to people close to me. I learnt being silent when people behaved eccentric or inconsistent. I learnt how to handle all situations prudently. Some people never understood the way I am. Some were hurt by the way I talk and what could I do if that’s real me. Sorry I may not be perfect. But I am definitely not fake! So who understood this fact are with me and will remain my close buddies for the lifetime.So I was saying, learning is a lifetime process, but there comes a time when we must stop adding and start updating it somewhere and this is how idea came into my mind to document all this into my blog and share my thought to my dear one! So here I am again :)


In the journey of our life, each individual walk off through something they call it as past. I was no exception for this, but now be prepared because I am going to make a very common statement about my past “I am over it and life has to move on...blah blah “But when we go into deep thinking about it, why it didn’t work out when everything looked so perfect initially?? We are answerless.
There may be thousands of reason for this, but I am not going to put them all here, as we all are have gone through it or have seen our friends going through it.I can only insist “Never look back, if you are not planning to go that way……!” Because the fact is no one in this world is rich enough to buy his own past. We may have loved the wrong person, we may have cried for the wrong person... No matter how many things go wrong. But the real fact is these things helps to find the one who is really meant for us!!


A best relationship is not which is free from problems and misunderstanding, it’s the one in which one smile can make everything perfect and sweet as before!! Because to walk together you cant hold right hand of him or her in your right hand. There are two things in life that are more painful than death! One is your love loves you and doesn’t tell you and other when your love doesn’t love you and tells you!! “Always feel free to tell what you feel and what you except because the opportunity can be lost in a blink of eye and regret may last for lifetime!! People say that we don’t understand the value of our loved ones until we lose them, but truth is we know their values; however we never think that we will lose them. So don’t ever run away from your feelings, sometimes best thing to be let it out! Just think what worst will happen, you may lose that person for good, but you dont have to carry the pain of no expressing throught out your life! So just follow your heart it will definately lead you to where you are meant to be!!
We get only one life to live, so we got to live this day as if it will be our last. Remember that we will only find ''tomorrow'' on the calendars of fools. So we got to forget yesterday's defeats and ignore the problems of tomorrow!! Sometime road travelled turn out to be more beautiful than the destination reached. Enjoy leading your life. No matter what it turns out...!!

So cheer up guys, we get only one life and we are Dj of our life, so just spin it, rock it and live it!! :)

Have a fantastic year 2011, I wish you all a very happy new year!!